I may be an outlier here....
My personal feelings concerning being patriotic are entirely connected to the place I live, the United States. I do stand with hand over heart during the anthem at events and respect all those symbols stand for, but ultimately we are truly represented by the phrase "We the People". I don't get upset if someone decides not to stand during the anthem....that's up to them. If someone burns a flag, that's up to them.
I still get goosebumps during the anthem....it reminds me of the things it stands for and principles I believe. However, I also get goosebumps during the Abbey Road medley. It reminds me of other things I love.